tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6291629176532683462024-03-04T23:50:29.688-08:00Improving Interpersonal SkillsBusifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-85476643087780613032014-04-19T23:27:00.002-07:002018-02-06T10:11:47.992-08:0010. Dating Advice For men - What If You Are Attracted To A Great Looking Woman? <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Are you an average guy? If you think and believe that you are extraordinary, then perhaps this articles is not for you. This post is addressed to a man who considers himself average. the use of 'You' is for convenience. Don't take it personal and read on. You may find some ideas you can use in your <a href="http://0e5664-jo308thm9kjjbqe-p7s.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">dating relationship</a>!<br />
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Okay. So, you are an average guy - both in terms of looks, skills and brains. Suddenly you find that you are attracted to a fabulous woman - a gorgeous woman with stunning looks and the cynosure of all male eyes.This is not a dream but a real thing. He comes to you on her own and befriends you and throws all hints of loving you. what will be your reaction?<br />
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You will think:<br />
a) I am extremely lucky.<br />
b) I deserve it. After all I have a charming personality.<br />
c) It may not last. But let me enjoy till it lasts.<br />
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About 70% of men will choose (a), about 25% (c) and only 5% (b)<br />
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If you choose (c), most probably, you will be proved right. The girl will leave you after some time.<br />
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Most of the people choose (a) because they have no <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BF08MU4" target="_blank">self esteem</a>. Let us see, what will happen if you choose (a). Since you deem it your luck that this great looking girl has chosen you, you will be worried that the luck should last. You will do things to ensure that the girl sticks with you. You will go out of the way to please her. You will exhibit sycophantic behavior.You will treat her not as a girlfriend but as God. Your behavior will make the woman realize that you do not consider yourself worthy of her love. Your desperation and frenzy will make her rethink about choosing to love you and will eventually convince you that you do not deserve her. And she will desert you. So, you will be in the same position of a person who chose (c)<br />
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If you had the luck to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/The-Manual-What-Women-Want/dp/1456494554/ref=as_li_tf_til?tag=whyturbtrai-20&linkCode=w00&creativeASIN=1456494554" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">get the love of a great looking woman</a>, the right thing for you will be to become proud of getting her. You should tell yourself that you deserve such a great person as your partner and you have earned her love in a rightful way. When you approach her with this attitude, an attitude fortified by confidence and conviction, then you will find that your girl will start thinking that she should not lose you. She will love you even more.<br />
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Now, if you get into a position like this, remember to choose the right option, which is (b)</div>
Busifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-4523554187230558622014-04-07T01:47:00.001-07:002018-02-06T10:11:32.691-08:009. Signs of a Troubled Marriage<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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There can be a large number of signs of a <a href="http://bit.ly/1fBvkKB" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">troubled marriage</a>, signs of myriad types. But some signs indicate that the marriage is in real trouble and needs immediate help if it is to be saved. here are some commonly observed signs that show that things have reached a stage where patch work solutions will not work.<br />
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1) The couple fight over petty issues: Do not all couples do it? Yes, of course. Fighting over trivial issues is so common that this may even be considered a sign of a healthy marriage. But there is a difference. The husband and wife start fighting over petty issues but the fight invariably escalates into something serious. It is like a story we sometimes read in the newspaper about a silly altercation between two people over petty issue ending up in a murder. In the case of marriage, small fights develop into big fights resulting in the death of marriage.<br />
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2) Threatening and Yelling become common features: If either or both of the spouses indulge in shouting or issuing threats, it is an indication that the marriage is in serious trouble. These reactions are a reflection of the contempt that has developed in the relationship. This cannot be good for the long term <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DA1NYZY" target="_blank">survival of the marriage.</a><br />
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3) Sleeping in separate couches or bedrooms become a common feature: A husband and wife becoming averse to sharing their bed or room with the other is perhaps the most ominous sign of an impending break up of the marriage.<br />
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Yet, the reality is that both are desperate to be loved and accepted. Only thing is that they are unable to find the love in their marriage partner. Perhaps, they will try various things from self help books to marriage counseling but may end up in frustration, with nothing working for them.<br />
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Well all along I have been using third person pronouns, as if I have been talking about some unknown people. But if you feel that some of the signs mentioned above are found in your marriage too, do not despair. There is a simple yet effective way to stop divorce and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DA1NYZY" target="_blank">save your marriage</a>.</div>
Busifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-37554245827842696032013-04-26T12:29:00.000-07:002018-02-06T10:11:14.035-08:008. What Makes a Relationship Truly Work<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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They say that good communication is the number one requirement in a <a href="http://5bd38x-rw8sfrfgcf9ya2mjmae.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLR" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">successful relationship</a>. However, this does not always happen. You sometimes keep things from each other because you don’t like confrontations and arguments. In the end, the frustration builds up until the gap widens. If you want to make things work, you need to bridge this gap. One way to do this is to finally open up to each other. You and your loved one need to thresh out all your feelings and opinions about something.<br />
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Just know that when you hurt each other, it’s a sign that you still care. Couples who have grown out of love tend to be distant and indifferent. Hence, it’s time to sit down together and make plans. If you’re about to make a decision that affects and changes your future, weigh all the options that you have. Discuss all the points. In order to do this, you need to set aside some time for the long discussion. Keep things light even if the topic is serious. This means that you need to hear each other out. See things from the other perspective and <a href="http://5bd38x-rw8sfrfgcf9ya2mjmae.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLR" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">understand why people feel differently</a>.<br />
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When it’s your turn to air out your points, make your feelings clear. This means that you need to be as honest as possible. Don’t leave out details. This might be something your partner is against, but then again, that’s why you need to make the fact that you may not always agree on something clear from the very beginning. If your partner is opposed to it, weigh the pros and cons. This is actually when you can see who makes a stronger point. All the while, be open to each other’s opinions. This may be your time to ask questions as well. The fact that you’re both ready to listen to each other already makes a world of difference. Remember this when you start to argue.<br />
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Identify a common goal. How do you see your future together? It’s nice to see that you actually are aiming for the same thing. The timetable may vary, but still, you want what’s best for the both of you. Always be sensitive to one another. This is the time where you have to be watchful of the words you use because this can really hurt the other person. When there is pain, then the whole planning process becomes more tedious. Always start by telling them that you do <a href="http://5bd38x-rw8sfrfgcf9ya2mjmae.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLR" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">understand where they’re coming from. </a><br />
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As you work towards making a great future as a couple, you can make things a lot easier by making sure you have your own tasks to fulfill. Duties won’t seem as daunting when you know that you actually have help along the way and that there is also someone out there looking out for you. Being a couple means that you have a partner in life and that you just can’t always think about yourself. Be selfless and make your loved one feel that you value them.</div>
Busifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-2133358267891910212013-03-15T11:27:00.002-07:002018-02-06T10:10:55.037-08:007. Who Needs Relationship Advice?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Do you need relationship advice, you may say no. This is
likely to be your answer even if you have relationship problems. So, it is not
that people do not need relationship advice. It is just that they are not
inclined to take this advice from others. They may not mind going to an expert
and paying him a hefty fee for his advice, though.</div>
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Just because <a href="http://hereishelpforyou.com/selfbehave/the-big-secret/" target="_blank">relationship advice</a> comes free and is often
offered unsolicited, it should not be ignored. Any advice has its value. For
example, if I tell you that having an argument late at night is a not good for relationship,
you may feel that this is unrealistic since many arguments take place only in
the late night, especially when one or both of the partners are not getting a
sleep! But a fact is a fact. If you can discipline yourself to avoid arguments
in late nights even if your partner is aggressive, you will be able to make
your relationship much stronger. You may even be able to have more control
during the day making up for what you have put up with in the night!</div>
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Therefore, <a href="http://hereishelpforyou.com/selfbehave/do-you-need-advice-on-relationships/" target="_blank">relationship advice </a>can be highly useful. Though
advice often comes unsolicited, sometimes, you need to go looking for advice.
While you will have professional marriage counselors ready to help you, you
can also take the help of people from your family, community, church etc.
Family support can be one of the most effective resources, even if the people
live far away from you. Make it a point to have good relationship with your partner’s
family. You will find this valuable in resolving any problem that may develop
between you and your partner in future.</div>
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Family support is vitally important, even if they live far
away. Strive to be courteous to your partner's family, and expect for your
partner to be courteous to yours. This is a good minimum standard for both of
you to have for each other, because when the time comes that both of you need
some support, they should be there for you at least to the extent you were
there for them. </div>
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<a href="http://hereishelpforyou.com/selfbehave/do-you-need-advice-on-relationships/" target="_blank">Advice on relationships</a> is something you need both in times
of bonhomie and conflicts. Such advice will help in building a strong bond between
the two of you.</div>
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Busifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-16614594281162461572013-02-09T00:09:00.004-08:002018-02-06T10:10:34.285-08:006. How To Find Mr Right From Online World<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Girls searching for
the right partner have this question constantly taunting them? <b><a href="http://6580000cp-zahmgapmuhkdtm9l.hop.clickbank.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">How to find Mr.Right</a></b> in the online world? A simple answer will be to ask you to join an online
dating site. But selecting the right site may be a problem. Before you can find Mr. Right, you need to
find the Tight Online Dating Site! The best site is not necessarily the most
popular site but you have to start your searches only among the popular sites.</div>
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Since your objective is to find the elusive Mr. Right, you
have to scrupulously avoid those run of the mill sites that while offering a
host of services will be limited in offering the choices because of their
catering to people who look for people with the same interests as they have. So
browse through several sites and choose one which your hunch says will be good
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The most important step in finding Mr. Right is to fill your
profile the right way. Do not do it casually. Do it as if you are filling it up in
connection with a job application. Be specific and detailed about who you are as
a person and where your interests lie. If your prospect finds as much as
possible about you, he will be the Mr. Right for you if he picks you up as his
choice.</div>
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You can also be proactive in your aim to find Mr. Right by
looking at the profiles of men listed in the site and picking up the one with a
profile that jibes with yours. You may be both skeptical about finding Mr.
Right and apprehensive about the safety of these sites. Since a very large number of people use these
sites, your chance of finding a good match for you are very good. You need not
worry about the confidentiality of the information keyed in by you since these
sites will not give out your information to others. They have to do this in their own interest of making
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invite any prospect to your house. Met him only at a public place.</li>
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for a friend or chaperone to be present at a place close enough to observe you without
disturbing your privacy.<br /><span style="font-size: 7pt;"><br /></span></li>
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information about the meeting place to someone near to you<br /><br />You can safely venture on to <a href="http://6580000cp-zahmgapmuhkdtm9l.hop.clickbank.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">find Mr. Right</a> by taking the above precautions. </li>
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Busifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-50658954234278906382013-01-20T19:50:00.004-08:002018-02-06T10:10:11.824-08:005. Should You Put Up With Rudeness In Recession Dating Relationships?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Some people may believe that one should put up with <b><i><a href="http://860f994pw5w8t9n7bblgrisp6x.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=NEW" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">rudeness in recession dating</a></i></b>? Recession dating refers to a situation in which your
partner is affected by recession and rudeness becomes his characteristic
behavior. My suggestion will be you should never put up with rudeness even in a
recession dating relationship. Your partner should understand that rudeness will not
take him anywhere except towards alienation.</div>
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If you want to be understanding and sympathetic and decide
to put up with their rudeness, then you will be signing up for a life of abuse.
Do not kid yourself into believing that once the financial troubles of your
partner are over, he will become affable. Aggression has an addictive
quality. If people find that rudeness gives them dividends, they will never give
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Please understand that financial problems caused by recession
are no excuse for <b><i><a href="http://860f994pw5w8t9n7bblgrisp6x.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=NEW" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">displaying rudeness in a dating relationship</a></i></b>. If someone
thinks that his financial position justifies his rudeness, he should keep away
from dating till he succeeds in rectifying his financial position.</div>
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In fact, display of rudeness is an indication of how a person
has been brought up. You can find a person’s inclination to be rude by the way he
behaves with the restaurant staff when he takes you out for lunch or dinner. If
he treats the waiters as people created by God to serve men like him, that is
an indication of how he will behave with you in future. Later he may think that
you have been created to take care of him and treat you not like a human being
but like an object owned by him!</div>
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Do not rationalize the rudeness of your partner using
recession as the cause. Recession may just be an excuse. Rudeness is likely to
be his trait and if you put up with <a href="http://860f994pw5w8t9n7bblgrisp6x.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=NEW" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><b><i>rudeness in a dating relationship</i></b></a>, you will
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Busifriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01750063591779721132noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-629162917653268346.post-65049082408651587702013-01-18T23:06:00.000-08:002018-02-06T10:08:30.967-08:004. Does Your Relationship Endure the Test Of Time<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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relationship one such? If not, what is it that you can do to make your relationship
stronger and capable of enduring the test of time? We will try to find some
answers to these questions.</div>
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A <b><a href="http://860f994pw5w8t9n7bblgrisp6x.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=NEW" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">relationship that endures the test of time</a></b> is built on
certain strong pillars to support it from falling apart in times of quakes and
turmoil. Such a relationship has certain characteristics.</div>
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relationship should give content to both the parties. There are many
relationships in which only one side is happy and the other side is not. Strangely
the person who is happy about the relationship is not even aware that the other
person is not! So, the relationship goes on well for all outward appearances.
We sometimes hear people saying about people in a relationship that they should
be happy since the relationship is continuing. Being physically together for
long is not necessarily a sign of an enduring relationship.</div>
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should be free communication between the partners. A relationship that does not
have free communication between the partners is no better than a relationship
that has broken. Free communication is different from routine, formal and
pretentious communication.<br />
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partner should miss the absence of the other. If your partner is away for
sometime, do you miss their absence? And does your partner miss your absence?
This is one of the most reliable test of closeness in a relationship. If you and
your partner fulfill this criterion, then your relationship has a chance to
endure the test of time even if it is lacking some other criteria. </div>
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above three tests. If it does not, you will have to identify its weaknesses and
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To stop fighting and reach a compromise will be the ideal of anyone. But this often seems an impossible thing to achieve. There are times in any relationship when the differences escalate
into disputes and you find yourself fighting with the other person. This can
happen in any relationship including the one among friends, business partners, family members and
partners in a marriage. When you are on the verge of fighting, it may appear
that a showdown is inevitable and that your relationship is on the verge of
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Please remember that is possible to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0983965994/ref=as_li_tf_til?tag=whyturbtrai-20&camp=0&creative=0&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=0983965994&adid=0ZQSGPBWGK4Q821CE5FM" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><b><i>stop fighting and save the relationship</i></b></a> at any stage, even at a stage that is sometimes described as a
point of no return. You just need to take three steps.</div>
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Understand yourself:
No, I am not stating the obvious. It happens quite often that we lose
our perspective and keep fighting for something that may not be important for
us. Ask the question: What am I fighting for? Is it what I want? Is this more
important than the relationship I am likely to lose? Asking questions like
these will help you find some answers which may make you see the issue in a
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Understand the other person: Obviously, this process should follow
your understanding of your own needs. What does the other person want? What is
he or she fighting for? Will they accept something else that I may be able to
offer? In what way, does the perception of the other person differ from your
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Work out a compromise: If you have taken the first two
steps, this step will be easy. First make your partner understand that you are
not interested in fighting with them but in finding a solution. In most of the
cases, they will reciprocate your approach. If they do not, they will come around
after sometime, unless they are completely obstinate in which case, you may
decide that fighting with them is the only option. Ask questions of your
partner. Find out their line of thinking.</div>
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Following the above steps, you will succeed in stopping
fighting at any stage, arriving at a compromise and <b><i><a href="http://860f994pw5w8t9n7bblgrisp6x.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=NEW" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">putting your relationshipback </a></i></b>on the rails.</div>
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Is there is a magic formula that can make all relationships could be relationships stand the test of time. If you have or if you can develop such a formula then, you will be able to make a fortune.<br />
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In fact one of those things that we find constantly eluding us is building up and sustaining relationships that stand the test of time. Perhaps there is a secret behind building such <b><a href="http://90b4e63jq16aglr7g8lltrzp08.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">enduring relationships</a></b>. That's why I talked about a formula at the beginning of this article.<br />
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Since I talked about a magic formula, you may be inclined to ask me whether I possess such a formula. I do, in fact, have such a formula. But there is nothing magical about it. It's so simple that you may kick yourself for having not thought about it yourself! Don't mistake me if I say that most of us (I am not saying all of us so as to give you a chance to exclude yourself from this "most") have a tendency to make things more complicated than they really are. So, all you need to have is a slight shift in your thinking about and approach towards your relationships to get the success that you would like to attain.<br />
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I expect that you may not readily with my assertion since it sounds too simple, if not simplistic. So, I will discuss a few simple ways that will definitely help you make your relationship stand the test of time.:<br />
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<b>Begin with you:</b> This can be a bitter pill for many but you really need to start at your level in your quest for an improved relationship. as much as you would like to have a partner that will be right for you, you should also make yourself right for your partner. Do you have the qualities that you expect from your partner? Jot down what you expect from your partner and introspect whether you are offering the same to your partner. Foe example, if you want your partner to be candid with you, have you been always frank with your partner?<br />
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<b>Show Your Partner What You Really Are:</b> After a certain stage in your relationship, you will have the maturity to deal with your partner with comfort and confidence. At this stage, you should make it known to your partner the efforts you have taken to make your traits match with theirs. This will make your partner understand that you can offer them what they want by travelling the extra mile if required. they will know that you are not just loving them but are also making yourself worthy of their love. I am not suggesting that you surrender your personality for the sake of love. I am only talking about the little adjustments that would go a long way in <b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/"><span id="goog_88767585"></span>sustaining your relationship<span id="goog_88767586"></span></a></b>.<br />
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<b>Dealing with the bad traits in your partner:</b> This is the most challenging part of the task. You may find some undesirable traits sooner or later. How are you going to cope with them? Either you will accept them and decide to live with them or persuade your partner to change them. You may or may not succeed but you will make the efforts all the same. Possibly, you will be able to succeed in changing some but not all. At this stage, you need to think what the effects of these traits will be on the compatibility between the two of you. You will have to take a call whether to accept these traits and continue the relationship or to leave the relationship if you believe that these will cause constant strains in your relationship. Either way, it is okay. The only thing to be avoided is to ignore such traits without thinking of their impact.<br />
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Improving Interpersonal Skills is one of the most challenging objectives of people in general and professionals in particular. It is a great irony of life that human beings should find it challenging to deal with their fellow human beings! But that is the reality of life. A famous person once remarked “I can achieve anything in this world, if only I don’t have to deal with human beings!”<br />
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Why should the task of improving human relationships pose such a great challenge? What is so complicated about it? This is an easy question that will be difficult to answer. There are two fundamental truths about human beings. Number One: All human beings are the same and Number Two: Each human being is different! You will immediately see a contradiction. But in fact, there is no contradiction, but only a paradox. Unlike a contradiction, a paradox can prevail but it needs to be explained.<br />
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These two fundamental truths form the basis for any attempt at improving human relationships. How do we reconcile these two apparently divergent concepts? It is simple. All human beings are the same in the sense that each and every action of a human being has a motive behind it. The motivating factor can be a need, a desire, an impulse or a reaction. Each human being is different in the sense that the motivating factors will be different for different people. Two human beings may not be motivated by the same objective. One may do something for fulfilling a need. And another may do the same thing as an expression of his emotion (a reaction.)<br />
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Understanding what motivates every one can be the first step in improving human relationships. How does one find this out? Just by sharpening one’s sense of observation. A simple rule will be: Observe, understand, verify and confirm/modify. Observe a person’s behavior, seek to understand it in terms of what motivates him, verify the correctness of your understanding through more observations and based on the results of the verification, either confirm your understanding or modify it. If you have to modify your understanding, you need to go through the verification process again till your understanding is confirmed.<br />
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